Adam Rector is a full-blown monster. He is a master manipulator and sociopath. Don’t let this cute face fool ya. Adam was my boyfriend for a number of years, is a part-time member of the Canadian Forces, and a full-time abuser. Throughout years of emotional, verbal, sexual, and sometimes physical abuse, I was manipulated into believing that it was my fault, that I was in the wrong, that I should feel bad and apologize, and make it up to him. I was his first serious girlfriend and I am posting this because I hope I can help the next person he preys on. Over a period of five years, on and off, he has verbally abused me, attempted to smother and choke me, forced me to perform sexual favors for him, and forced me to have s*x with him on several occasions. He won the hearts of my closest family members and friends with his facade and convinced me that the one person who didn’t like him (my best friend and cousin) was out to get me and was jealous of my happiness. He bullied me into keeping his secret, into not telling anyone. He didn’t want me to talk to my friends, my own mother, or even a professional about any of these problems. I broke up with him roughly six months ago and am just now starting to deal with an unravel the trauma that occurred over the past five years. Please be warned, he is a smooth talker. For five years he treated me like a princess in public, bought me nice things, took me on trips, got along well with my family and friends, but behind closed doors he tortured me. Adam Rector needs serious psychological help. Please don’t be fooled by his chivalry… When there is enough light you can finally see all the cracks.
